I have always known I wanted kids. We got married young (I was almost 20) and right from the start I pestered Mitch for a baby. I knew that out of the many good things in life, being a mother was going to be at the top of the list.
When I thought about being a mom I thought about the baby stage. I thought about rocking them to sleep, waking up throughout the night, wonderful first smiles, endless cuddles, all those good things. I truthfully didn't think much farther than that. I gave little to no thought to having a two year old.
The baby stage with Tyler was wonderful. He was such a good baby and early parenting was everything I thought it would be.
And then he turned two.
How did I not know this was coming? How was I not prepared?
I. love. having a two year old. Love it. I can't express how much fun we have on a daily basis. We sing and laugh and yell out silly things and hop and read books and then read more books and talk and jump on the bed. Tyler is so smart he blows my mind. I know...every parent is sure their kid is a genius, so I'm dutifully jumping on that wagon, but really. He's amazing. He is a joy to parent, and I promise I'm not just spouting rainbows. He gets out of bed a million times an evening (or used to...we may have turned a corner) refuses to eat certain things, hates napping, and generally is a normal two year old. He is not perfect, nor is he always easy. But...he's just so much fun. I love my son and the goofy sweetheart he's become. I am so so privileged to be his mama.

Love this Josie. Just love it. I echo your joy and delight on parenting toddlers. It also took me by surprise how much fun it is having a little buddy. G and I had a very special bond, and we had such a blast during the 18-36 month stage. Now we're enjoying this time with Indie as well, and it is just as much fun the second time around. My favorite part now? Seeing G and Indie interact and love each other...that sibling love has melted my heart and filled me with such JOY.
ReplyDeleteWishing you much joy as you love on Tyler during this next year.