Took Tyler to is 98874535th appointment today...this time for physio. I don't think I was overly pleasent. Not to the social worker anyway, who when introducing herself to me at the beginning said "I'm the one who spoke on the phone with you a few weeks ago". Ah yes. The lady with whome I have been royally pissed off at for awhile now. Here is the problem:
I was the one who diagnosed Tyler with torticollis. My GP didn't notice it in her visits with him until I pointed it out. She then referred me to a physio place at the beginning of July, which we FINALLY got into today. I was not willing to wait for months to begin Tyler's treatment however, and had phoned several friends and a coworker who had experience with torticollis. The general consensus was that physio was alright, but chiropractic really made a difference. I booked Tyler into a highly recommended pediatric chiropracter and we've been seeing her frequently. We have seen a HUGE difference in Tyler's neck and she has been fantastic. However, most people in the medical profession are extremely leery about chiro, and from what I hear, this concern can be warranted. When this social worker lady from the physio clinic called me awhile ago (and may I point out again - SOCIAL WORKER. Not MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL) I told her I had been seeing a chiropractor while waiting to get in to physio. She immediately questioned me and said I should have waited. I told her I was not willing to wait 2.5 months to get treatment for my son when everything I hear tells me that torticollis needs to be dealt with at as young an age as possible. We had a little argument on the phone which resulted in me throwing things around my house afterwards in tears and anger.
Do not question my intentions for my son. I have spent his entire life trying to do what is absolutely best for him. Unless you can show me your medical certificate, you have zero right to tell me what is right and wrong in terms of his treatment.
Okay. So anyway. Deep breaths.
Physio happened today and I will rephrase...I was very pleasant to all involved except said social worker. She can take her good intensions and shove...right. Deep breaths. Do I sound angry? It's more of my overwhelmed-ness taking the form of anger. We will now be going to physio every week until his neck begins to show forms of improvement. I'm so unsure what to do about chiro. Everyone at the physio clinic told me today that Tyler's condition is not a serious one. I kept telling them that is because I took him to the chiropractor last week and his neck improves every time he sees her. They kept telling me it's coincedence. They haven't seen him when he can't lift his ear off of his shoulder.
So what do I do? Every single person I know whose child has dealt with torticollis says that chiro worked the best on their child. Every single medical professional tells me that it's sketchy. Are there politics involved in why they don't like chiropractors or is it actually as dangerous as they say? I just want to help Tyler hold his head up straight. Maybe even go a few weeks one day without another appointment. That would be nice.
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Oh Josie, I wish I had some awesome advice or wise words for you. I've got nothing. But the fact that you have to go through this SUCKS. I know you want nothing but the best for Tyler and I assure you, you are a wonderful and loving parent no matter what you decide to do about the chiropractor.
ReplyDeleteThe real professionals are the parents. No one loves, observes or prayers for these babies like you do. Occasionally another observer can give you something to think about an options to consider (like the time I told a dear friend after babysitting her son for a few days that I feared her little boy needed tubes in his ears because when I talked to him face to face he was an obedient little boy but when I called to him out in the yard and he couldn't see my lips he didn't come - she took that thought home and decided she'd noticed that too and followed up on it). But trust yourself! Jesus entrusted these babies to YOU!
ReplyDeleteEverything has a risk/benefit to it. You are the mom, you get to decide what that ratio is for you and what you are comfortable. Don't let the physio's bully you. Chiro is safe for Tyler, a chiro wouldn't touch him if they thought he was high risk for any of the issues that could arise. They get enough bad press just doing good. It bugs me that they call his improvement coincidence. I would NOT. Have I told you my chiro story? I will someday. I'm a BELIEVER! A physio destroyed my mom's neck after an accident and a chiro has got it closer to normal, that's another story. I'm not anti-physio (b/c I don't knock stuff that I haven't researched) but I'm totally PRO chiro!! Keep taking him, talk to your chiro about the concerns you have. They will answer your questions honestly and hopefully put you at ease.
ReplyDeleteAnd, yes, in my opinion it's largely political...